...aspire to live quietly, and
to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed
you, so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on
no one.
~1 Thess. 4:11-12
Living quietly means more than controlling the level of noise allowed into my life. I am also convicted of the noise I contribute.
Social
media has allowed us to collect "followers" and "friends" like trinkets
on a charm bracelet. We are compelled to share intimate details of our
lives with complete strangers, yet we are ashamed to ask friends to
pray for us as we wrestle against sin. We brand ourselves with carefully
crafted personas, afraid the true person cowering behind the screen
isn't good enough. We allow site hits to determine our significance.
We shamelessly promote ourselves instead of the One who deserves all glory.
In considering the noise I contribute to the social media frenzy, I ask questions that are somewhat familiar:
Am I attempting to drown out the voice of God?
I must aim to glorify Him and Him alone in what I post. Family
accomplishments are to be celebrated, not paraded for public
consumption.
Am I infringing on my family's privacy? Sharing what God is doing in our family can be an encouragement to others and testify to His goodness. Sharing my daughter's struggles or my husband's sins violates their confidence in me. When sharing my own sins and struggles, I must be careful not to implicate my family in any way.
Is this relevant in God's Kingdom? I must gauge the importance of the information I'm sharing in light of eternity.
Will this encourage and help others in their walk with the Lord? I must remember that even in social media, I am called to disciple and encourage others.
I have lovely group of Facebook friends - women serious about the Lord, but not always so serious. Our bond in Christ has been strengthened by discussions on theology as well as our mutual affections for Jane Austen and OPI nail polish. I have close relationships with other women I've only met online, forged through blog comments, emails, and prayer. I have learned much, grown deeper in the Lord, and laughed til I cried. I am incredibly thankful that God has enriched my life through social media.
I want my online presence to reflect that truth.
Am I infringing on my family's privacy? Sharing what God is doing in our family can be an encouragement to others and testify to His goodness. Sharing my daughter's struggles or my husband's sins violates their confidence in me. When sharing my own sins and struggles, I must be careful not to implicate my family in any way.
Is this relevant in God's Kingdom? I must gauge the importance of the information I'm sharing in light of eternity.
Will this encourage and help others in their walk with the Lord? I must remember that even in social media, I am called to disciple and encourage others.
I have lovely group of Facebook friends - women serious about the Lord, but not always so serious. Our bond in Christ has been strengthened by discussions on theology as well as our mutual affections for Jane Austen and OPI nail polish. I have close relationships with other women I've only met online, forged through blog comments, emails, and prayer. I have learned much, grown deeper in the Lord, and laughed til I cried. I am incredibly thankful that God has enriched my life through social media.
I want my online presence to reflect that truth.
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